[FrenchieMom]

Don't be too hard on yourself. Sometimes women have a hard time moving on if they don't see another "option" in their future. I know the feeling, but you are young and beautiful, you will find the right person someday, and the sex will be amazing no matter what!

I went out on other dates and I'm putting myself out there but he's the only one I'm attracted to. I broke up with him because he was selfish and not treating me right, amongst other problems. But there's always this hope "maybe he will change" or "oh he called means he wants to make things better" but he never does! We broke up and got back many times, but it's the same old story and I'm just sick of it. I think if I didn't "discuss" my sexual desires and fantasies with him and didn't go so far with him, I would've moved on by now. On the upside, he just makes me hold on to my no sex rule even more! Guys in my life repeatedly prove that they're not worth how much I invest in the relationship so they definitely don't deserve to have that part of me.

Sorry about spilling my life's story on this thread, completely went off track. He just contacted me today so I just needed to vent.

Oh honey, don't apologize, I think I can speak for everyone on here, we have all been there. Stay strong, but it sounds like he probably isn't the one, or he just hasn't grown up enough yet. I'm 30 and I haven't found the one yet, so don't stress it, I love my life with or without a man!!