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I'm a novice when it comes to information on female ejaculation. So this is more of a thread that's intended to share research and information on the subject.

Female ejaculation is also known as the "g-spot orgasm" or "squirting". The latter name explains it best. It's what's known as the third orgasm (with the first two being clitoral and vaginal) and can be so intense women have been known to pass out from it.

These are the links I currently have on it. You'll probably find more if you check out google. I'll add a list of books that have information on it when I get the chance.

http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm
http://askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimac...101-video/
http://askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimac...uring-sex/
http://en.allexperts.com/sitesearch.htm?...859&sdn=en
http://www.aphroditewomenshealth.com/for...mber=96121
http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat...r/16475430
http://www.orgasmarts.com/ (you have to sign up to get the video from Jason Julius, but you can probably just find it on youtube or around on the internet if you can't be bothered with it. The guy's a bit weird, but his videos are pretty helpful.)

I've been looking around, but I'm surprised I haven't come across a forum dedicated to women learning to ejaculate.

I'm also looking for instructions from a woman. Like a site, video or book. There's a lot of men who know how to do this, but they're not experiencing it for themselves. I'm thinking maybe a woman can describe it some other way that kind of makes it all click together.

Also, I understand that sex is an uncomfortable subject, but don't be afraid to share experiences or talk about these things. Sex is normal; so is masturbation. And I just think women should be allowed to talk about this shit since men are so willing to blab to other men about some chick they fucked. WOOO GIRL POWAH! >:O

I've been squirting for years now, probably almost 5 years. I first got into it when I met my husband. Basically when we were getting to know each other sexually, we shared fantasies, etc. He told me how he would watch flicks with girls squirting and he always wanted to have sex with a girl who could do that, because he loved to see a woman enjoying herself. (He also gets off by going down on a girl, he's the type that gets off on other's pleasure, hope that makes sense). So I had NO idea this even existed nor wtf it was. So we both researched together. We found a porno/educational piece of men who could teach girls how to do it. In the video they explained it in depth and how each woman is different. (I wish I could remember the name of it, if I find it I will let you know).

Basically every woman reaches orgasm differently, no matter what type of orgasm. Like for me a clitoral orgasm is achieved by a special type of grinding or rubbing on it, where some girls need something more gentle. A vaginal orgasm only happens for me in two positions, spooning or missionary with my legs over his shoulders and him pressing his body as close to mine, (I'm very flexible). Basically a vaginal orgasm happens for me only when certain parts of my vagina are rubbed the right way. Where as some girls do better on top or regular missionary for that.

Now me learning how to "squirt" aka female ejeculate was quite a learning curve. We went to adult shops, bought "g-spot" specific vibes and toys, I tried a few, nothing. We tried sex in positions that would influence it, nothing. He tried fingering me in the way the man in the video said some girls achieve ejaculation, nothing. (I never liked fingering anyway, not my thing, I masturbate by putting myself under a running warm water faucet like in the tub). Then we tried this one normal vibrating dildo, that had flesh like material (we had given up on trying to ejaculate, we were just playing around). Basically this toy was meant to be a female strap on, but a friend of mine told me about it and said it made a great masturbation toy. One end was the vibrating dildo, the other end, the part that was meant to go onto the female "wearer" which was essentially a clit stimulator. So we used the clit part first, I got off that way, then we used the dildo part, he was slowly putting it in and taking it out, and each time he did near the tip for some reason I kept feeling a really good sensation I had never felt before. I told him to focus on that. Then it happened, I squirted. And yes, it is a more intense orgasm. I didn't project far like pornos show, I still don't. But be prepared for a mess when you do this. The average ejaculate can be 1/2-2 cups worth.

Now let me see if I can try to describe what it feels like. For me a clitoral orgasm, it shoots through my body from clit to head down to toes and back again. Vaginal orgasms I only feel in my vaginal region. Ejaculating orgasms are felt from inside the vagina, through the opening of the urethra, all through the body and are between 10-50 times more intense than the other two orgasm types mentioned. Now you did forget one more type of orgasm, anal orgasm. Those are kinda like vaginal just a different feeling and are only felt in the anal region. I don't like anal sex, tried it, don't like it. I do however like putting a small egg shaped vibe in there and having sex. You get two orgasms at once that way, plus it gives him a vibrating vagina

Oh, I just asked hubby what the name of the video was, he said he googled "female squirting instructions" or "female ejaculation instructions".

Okay more precautions about squirting. Once you start, having sex then NOT doing it is extremely hard. And I have RUINED mattresses with it. Ejaculate, though not urine, has a somewhat urine smell. So if you plan to do this on a bed get a waterproof mattress cover and have a change of sheets handy. I now have 3 waterproof mattress covers and about 10 sets of sheets. You have to understand female anatomy to understand what ejaculate is, where it comes from and where it comes out of. Female ejaculate comes from the female prostate which is located inside the vagina, it is attached to the urethra, it fills with fluid when the female becomes aroused and excited. Turning it from a small ball to 3 times it's size. This is why when you are NOT aroused and you stick a finger inside yourself you barely feel it, then become extremely aroused and check again, you will notice the difference. (I mean so aroused you are ready to hump anything in sight.) Once stimulated and the ejaculation orgasm happens, like a male orgasm it releases the fluid. The fluid comes out the urethra, just like a males comes out of his. The fluid is clear to milky depending on the woman. Some women can project some don't. Just like some men do some don't.

I think I about covered most of it. If I missed anything let me know. Good luck! Best thing to do is relax, at first you will feel like you are about to pee, just let it happen. Most women hold back because they think they are about to pee. Also if you've ever had sex then always have to "pee" afterward, it's your body releasing the ejaculate. Just how sometimes if men don't ejaculate they release it later. HTH!

Its funny i do this everytime near enough but dont forget a towel as otherwise change the sheets few times a day not good I learnt as a teen touching myself I can do it from clitoral or g spot stimulation like anastaisia i am flexible my favourite standing position is the ballerina like the dancer stand on one leg other over man shoulder so maybe flexibility helps squirting but i am also very sexual i get stressed if i only have once a day if longer i get headach i dont know if this is normal thing

You just have a high sex drive, nothing wrong with that.

i think projecting far , spray or squirt depends i think on what your muscles do at the time you cum like i normally drip first as i give in to orgasm then as i orgasm my vagina muscles squeeze and twitch then it squirt far like up the wall like a pornstar funny because when i first project far was over my exs laptop while he video us like this
ok it sounds messy snd annoying to clean up but its so worth the feeling .

I've come close to passing out from the waves of orgasims if my boyfriend really pushes it and I squirt 3 or 4 times in a row.

I am unable to do it to myself. From what I can tell, its a specific technique - manipulation of the g-spot to accomplish it and you really need to let yourself go and not be concerned that your urinating because you won't be. Its a very different sensation once you start squirting, almost clear in color and no smell or taste. At least for me. You can feel it building up, like a ballon filling up with water till you orgasim and it rushes out of you. I find, if you press and hold on the g-spot once you built some fluid, then you can squirt. Maybe some people just rush it and don't let enough fluid to build up .. Like men edging to ..

If you really want to experience the sensation, get a g-spot toy as the curve should position the end close to the spongy g-spot location and make it easier to figure out how to build up the fluid and hit the spot to make you squirt.

Anastasia - I'll check out the videos when I get the chance. I think the info on how orgasms are different for everyone is something to keep in mind.

I actually noticed that it had a slight urine smell the first time I squirted. Most sites say that there is no smell, so I was a bit doubtful when it first happened. I think it was the askdanandjennifer site that confirmed it for me.

I've read that the squirting porn stars do may not be real, and that what they're doing is urinating. I have no idea if this is true, but it's something to watch out for. It stacks on a large expectation for women who've never squirted before.

I left out any additional orgasms because they're usually combination orgasms (i.e. mixed vaginal/clitoral orgasm which could arguably be a g-spot orgasm). But I get what you're saying. I'm not a big fan of anal myself.

I've read that there are "seasoned squirters" who can actually force the fluid out. Have you ever done this before?

LookingForward - I've never heard that before about holding the g-spot to build up fluid. I think I'll give that a try.

It might just also be a matter of angling a normal dildo. I saw a squirting video where it was angled upward, and another one where it was angled downward. This might go back to what Anastasia was saying about different strokes for different folks.

I read something about drinking water before sex, that it could improve your chances for squirting. Yet I've also heard the opposite; that you'll want to pee beforehand. Any thoughts on this?

And now that I'm looking it up....most of the sites seem to be giving the generally same information, and are for men. What would really be helpful is a manual done by a woman since women are the ones experiencing this. I continue my search....

I've never tried to force it, I just let it happen, so no clue lol.

I found this. Just more information on the kinds of orgasms that exist. One guy mentioned there were about 50 ways to make a woman orgasm. Looking at this list makes me believe him lol.