15-09-2014, 04:21 AM
I'm puzzled by what goes on in a male mind. Can anyone who used to be a male or knows men well enlighten me (and many other girls) on some questions? Please also share similar stories below
1. I have a friend (A) and she was seeing a guy (B) for a few months. They met in the States, but unfortunately, A had to return to Asia for the summer while B stayed in the States. B said he couldn't promise anything to A. In the middle of summer, B went to Asia and requested to meet A. A agreed, but later found out that B had been seeing SOMEONE ELSE in A's country. B had not met this new girl face-to-face until this trip to Asia! How is it possible that a guy can let go of someone whom he's been seeing for a while, for someone he's never met before?
2. Why do guys, and exes in particular, warmly wish you happy birthday, happy new year and merry christmas every year, like your statuses and photos, etc but when it comes to real communication, they do not initiate conversation, or sound cold when we girls do finally reach out?
I told an ex that I am going to his city for work for a few days, he was super cold. Whereas normally, he would always say things like “I hope I can see you again” ?!?!?!?!
3. Why would a guy say he doesn't want to do long distance relationship with someone, then go on to date other people from other cities?
WHY WHY WHY??
1. I have a friend (A) and she was seeing a guy (B) for a few months. They met in the States, but unfortunately, A had to return to Asia for the summer while B stayed in the States. B said he couldn't promise anything to A. In the middle of summer, B went to Asia and requested to meet A. A agreed, but later found out that B had been seeing SOMEONE ELSE in A's country. B had not met this new girl face-to-face until this trip to Asia! How is it possible that a guy can let go of someone whom he's been seeing for a while, for someone he's never met before?
2. Why do guys, and exes in particular, warmly wish you happy birthday, happy new year and merry christmas every year, like your statuses and photos, etc but when it comes to real communication, they do not initiate conversation, or sound cold when we girls do finally reach out?
I told an ex that I am going to his city for work for a few days, he was super cold. Whereas normally, he would always say things like “I hope I can see you again” ?!?!?!?!
3. Why would a guy say he doesn't want to do long distance relationship with someone, then go on to date other people from other cities?
WHY WHY WHY??