[timarie]

Oh timarie thank you so much for your response. I had to read it twice to soak up all of the wisdom you speak with. I am at a point in my life where I am still experiencing many realizations about myself and who I am, searching. Hearing your way of seeing it really cleared my mind of how I have been seeing myself for so long. I think I have a fear that the people in my life will see me change and judge me in some way. It feels so amazing to have identified this problem that has been causing me stress! Now to move beyond feeling this way and start living My life .

I came back to my post and edited it to say I planned on getting an underbust and then saw your comment and see you think it is best also
I also think it is more ideal and even more sexy in my opinion, having an open chest just seems more exciting (;

I completely understand where you are coming from, which is why I responded to your question. I am 28 and sometimes I feel like I am still unsure of "who I am" in many ways (best example is that I still do not know what career field I want to get into permanently to work... a little late at 28 but hey, I guess everyone is different). And of course it was not even that long ago in which I was unsure of who I was as far as what I wanted for my body (like your recent dilemma). I am so glad to have helped you, even if just a little! I find it to be THE most frustrating thing in my life (to be unsure of "who I am"), and being afraid of people judging you, on top of that, only makes matters worse. So I can completely relate. But so happy to see that you are now able to get out of that! Fantastic.

And agreed with the open chest... you'll have different options as far as how you choose to wear it! Take your time finding the right one