[Missed Miss]

My name is Bethany and I am so new to this. I have been perusing the forum now for a few months and decided to post. I am a bio-male who has been locking away my female self for a long time now. I feel a sense of freedom in saying it out loud (so to speak) to others who feel the same.

I love to wear sexy clothes and picture myself in full girl mode in my head. I love how I feel dressed as a woman and love the way I envision my life as a woman.

Problem is, I am married to the most wonderful (old-fashioned) girl in the world. This would probably end our marriage as she could never understand why I am the way I am. I wish she would, but I think not. I am not sure how to come out to her or should i just let her catch me? Help?

Test the waters first. Tell her you read in a magazine or paper somewhere about a guy that decided he wanted to grow tits, or become TS and see what she thinks about that. Then you can go from there as to how you want to play it.
Also, during an intimate moment, tell her that you'll always love her no matter what. But ONLY if you REALLY mean it!! If she says the same, then you can go from there knowing that she's PROBABLY okay with you doing this. But, still other things need to be done to make sure she's okay with it.
Maybe, one day, if you can fit into them, put on some of her clothes "for a giggle", including a bra with stuffing, and ask her what she thinks of it. She'll probably have a good laugh over it. Make light of it yourself, too, but not in a bad way. She just might suggest other things you can do to be more fem and even put make-up on you.
Just be careful how you play it!