[TibetanPrincess]

I know that i takes patience but i'm just worried, like what if i don't get any swelling at all, ever?

That's what i'm worried about...that's why it frustrates me that i have to wait so long to find.

But thank you for the helpful advice and tips

I am getting the feeling you are not mentally ready for nbe. I see your multiple posts and you are simply not listening. Nbe results are not forceable, and if you can't handle suspense and anxiety that comes along with it, you shouldn't be doing it. Sounds like you aren't quite ready just yet.