[Outofstyle]

thanks Anastasia, my first O yeaarrs ago was from a water faucet, I love it! I can get to an O no problem on my own, it was just with guys I was having troubles but I think my main issue was what you said, that I wasn't keeping a clear mind. I am now starting to meditate, because my inability to keep a clear mind has also been causing me problems with falling asleep.

Thanks for your advice, and yes I am going to say SCREW YOU to men until I fall in love. Or close to.. And in the meantime I am going to go get myself a new toy and experiment, I love picking myself out a gift every now and then