16-12-2015, 04:43
Wow,, how many different ways did the people nail this,,, lol,,
Hun, you said something a few pages back,,
(Goodwill, I'm honestly afraid he would think it's ridiculous or even get frustrated with me for saying that I looked this stuff online. I don't want to risk him holding something like this against me. Or acting like it's cool after we talk about it some but then secretly thinking I'm a weirdo or something )
1# what right does he have to judge how you maintain your own body?
or to look down on you for going to educated forums on the subject?
2# him holding it against you,,? sweety it sounds like your putting way too high a value on his opinions and not enough value on your own right to make beneficial choices for yourself.
3# Worrying about him thinking your a weirdo for this choice,,,, Maybe the very fact that you have to be concerned about his loyalties,, over a relatively small subject should be a clear indicator of things to come,,, If you have to go out of your way to alter yourself to maintain his attention,, you should out there shopping for the guy that will be hopelessly in love with you,( in sickness and in health,, for richer and for poorer,, - lol you get the picture.
The very fact that your torturing yourself over his whims,,shows clearly just how much (you) invest in a relationship,,, just how far (you,ll) go to maintain it .
You could easily be loved by a man that see,s all your imperfections ,, (as perfection)! That couldnt imagine wanting anyone else in his arms,, a man that would always find pleasure in looking at( just )you.
There are men out there that play the psychological game so perfectly,, they get you to love them, then they very subtly control you,, make you doubt yourself , sell yourself short just to keep you under your thumb. and slip you just enough pillow talk to keep the game going.
I know there are goodmen out there i sincerely hope you find one hun. i wish you the best.
Hun, you said something a few pages back,,
(Goodwill, I'm honestly afraid he would think it's ridiculous or even get frustrated with me for saying that I looked this stuff online. I don't want to risk him holding something like this against me. Or acting like it's cool after we talk about it some but then secretly thinking I'm a weirdo or something )
1# what right does he have to judge how you maintain your own body?
or to look down on you for going to educated forums on the subject?
2# him holding it against you,,? sweety it sounds like your putting way too high a value on his opinions and not enough value on your own right to make beneficial choices for yourself.
3# Worrying about him thinking your a weirdo for this choice,,,, Maybe the very fact that you have to be concerned about his loyalties,, over a relatively small subject should be a clear indicator of things to come,,, If you have to go out of your way to alter yourself to maintain his attention,, you should out there shopping for the guy that will be hopelessly in love with you,( in sickness and in health,, for richer and for poorer,, - lol you get the picture.
The very fact that your torturing yourself over his whims,,shows clearly just how much (you) invest in a relationship,,, just how far (you,ll) go to maintain it .
You could easily be loved by a man that see,s all your imperfections ,, (as perfection)! That couldnt imagine wanting anyone else in his arms,, a man that would always find pleasure in looking at( just )you.
There are men out there that play the psychological game so perfectly,, they get you to love them, then they very subtly control you,, make you doubt yourself , sell yourself short just to keep you under your thumb. and slip you just enough pillow talk to keep the game going.
I know there are goodmen out there i sincerely hope you find one hun. i wish you the best.