02-12-2015, 19:06
Hi daisy. Listen girl, first off Imma lay it out here straight - I am jealous of your boobs. How's that for a confidence booster? Honestly, my boobs are so small and wide set, I have no cleavage at all even with bombshell bras, and I wear an A cup only because I'm too ashamed to shop in the training bra section, because in reality my measurements are for a AA. So for me, to have a B/C like yours would be a dream come true. So my first message for you is that you could be a lot worse off than you are. The first step to feeling good about yourself is to think about what you do have rather than what you don't. Do you mind if I PM you to ask about how you were able to gain weight?
I also started NBE because I was in a relationship with a shallow guy, years ago. Honestly the only reason I was with him was because I was lonely and had no self esteem, I never thought that anyone could ever find me attractive. My first attempt at NBE didn't work, he eventually cheated on me, and I left him, after wasting like 5 years of my life with him. The moral that I learned was don't date shallow guys, it's never worth it. It's hard to understand that when you're single and lonely, but after all the fighting and pain and wasted time and energy, I really wish I had just let myself stay single.
I am back to using NBE, but this time it's for me. That's what I would wish for everyone doing this. If you try to make yourself into what other people want you to be, you will always fail. But if you can look in the mirror every day and see yourself the way you want to be, with those big beautiful D's, then you can get somewhere with it. But allowing yourself to be stressed out and worried over what some guy thinks about your body is so not worth it. I think, if you want to date him, then go for it, don't let anyone tell you what not to do, but keep in mind that his opinion of you is just that, his own opinion. Yours is the only one that matters, because you are going to live with yourself for the rest of your life.
I also started NBE because I was in a relationship with a shallow guy, years ago. Honestly the only reason I was with him was because I was lonely and had no self esteem, I never thought that anyone could ever find me attractive. My first attempt at NBE didn't work, he eventually cheated on me, and I left him, after wasting like 5 years of my life with him. The moral that I learned was don't date shallow guys, it's never worth it. It's hard to understand that when you're single and lonely, but after all the fighting and pain and wasted time and energy, I really wish I had just let myself stay single.
I am back to using NBE, but this time it's for me. That's what I would wish for everyone doing this. If you try to make yourself into what other people want you to be, you will always fail. But if you can look in the mirror every day and see yourself the way you want to be, with those big beautiful D's, then you can get somewhere with it. But allowing yourself to be stressed out and worried over what some guy thinks about your body is so not worth it. I think, if you want to date him, then go for it, don't let anyone tell you what not to do, but keep in mind that his opinion of you is just that, his own opinion. Yours is the only one that matters, because you are going to live with yourself for the rest of your life.