[daisy134]

Bobbi, That is a good way of approaching the situation. I could definitely feel comfortable saying something along those lines. I do feel the supplements I've been taking have had some heath benefits (non breast related) and I could mention that for sure! Thank you for your advice.

TibetanPrincess, You made a lot of good points! I have felt the same way about this issue being a red flag for me. I also felt accepted in my previous relationships & if I ever wanted to change it was for ME not for the person I was with. Me not feeling comfortable with him or secure enough to be open with him about this stuff is definitely a sign to me and I have been reconsidering our relationship a lot lately.

Jamie, I agree completely! Personality is so important to me and it's what makes someone attractive to me. I think that's why this whole situation is so brutal for me. I can't comprehend feeling rejected because of shallow nonsense and it's difficult for me to look past what happened when we were first together. I like to think that I'm a nice and funny person and for him to seem to hold a high premium on physical appearance was upsetting.

Goodwill, That is what I would think! But honestly he's the type of guy to question it and say it's a waste of time. I would love to know I could be open with someone about that. I guess the reason I feel kinda uncomfortable telling him is because of how insecure I felt at the start of our relationship. I keep trying to shake that feeling. I've never had this issue in a relationship before and it's difficult to overcome.