[butterfly11]

sweetbee,

Because cheaters will be cheaters...some men (and women) are just not capable of monogamous relationships and will find one excuse or another to cheat on their partners; then will cheat on their next partner after that because they lack self control. Men cheat with less attractive women all the time or any woman that's willing just for the "thrill." It's not about our bodies or our actual worth, it's about us valuing ourselves so we don't attract or fall for predatory or womanizing males. Anywho, you learn to spot them quick after a rocky relationship like this. A man like that will cheat on every woman he dates; he could be married to a supermodel and still cheat on her because it's a personality type; he is just hungry for contant attention, affection, and confirmation of his manhood. lol When it comes to cheating, it's not you it's him; self respecting people don't cheat period when they're in a committed monogamous relationship. People can change; but not often, always best to let them go, lock the door, and throw away the key. Always someone out there who can treat us better. ^ ^