25-05-2012, 05:14 PM
Hi Isabelle,
I never had any daughters, only 2 sons, so I can't be more than theoretical help here, but I do certainly sympathise with your dilemma's, we had those with the boys as well, but in different ways!
My personal gut feeling is that you should listen to the medical professionals but otherwise leave nature to do it's own thing. I can understand you wanting her to be as beautiful a young woman as possible, I know I would be exactly the same ( in fact I always wanted a daughter and I know that a big part of that was so that I could buy her all the beautiful clothes and make-up, etc that I wanted for myself ). However you know as well as I do that at 15 she still has a lot of natural development to run through and aside from potentially screwing up her natural development, there is an equally good chance of actually achieving the opposite of what you want by forcing her body into conflict.
Finally, of course 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder' and what you think is the perfect woman may not be what she thinks ( and from what you've said that is already at least partly the case), and I'm perfectly sure that somewhere out there is a boy who will one day think she is venus re-incarnated, whatever she looks like.
So, my take is: do nothing that isn't medically indicated, hide all the herbs, look after her, support her, but let her grow up in her own way.
I never had any daughters, only 2 sons, so I can't be more than theoretical help here, but I do certainly sympathise with your dilemma's, we had those with the boys as well, but in different ways!
My personal gut feeling is that you should listen to the medical professionals but otherwise leave nature to do it's own thing. I can understand you wanting her to be as beautiful a young woman as possible, I know I would be exactly the same ( in fact I always wanted a daughter and I know that a big part of that was so that I could buy her all the beautiful clothes and make-up, etc that I wanted for myself ). However you know as well as I do that at 15 she still has a lot of natural development to run through and aside from potentially screwing up her natural development, there is an equally good chance of actually achieving the opposite of what you want by forcing her body into conflict.
Finally, of course 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder' and what you think is the perfect woman may not be what she thinks ( and from what you've said that is already at least partly the case), and I'm perfectly sure that somewhere out there is a boy who will one day think she is venus re-incarnated, whatever she looks like.
So, my take is: do nothing that isn't medically indicated, hide all the herbs, look after her, support her, but let her grow up in her own way.