[Isabelle]

Hi Ginie,

Thank you for taking the time to explain all this. Don't worry too much about your husband. Men love boobs. Period. In addition, men are simple beings. They judge in a fraction of a second if you are the woman who is ready to have their children. Once the children are there, their perception of how you mother them becomes very important. Sad but true: exactly how big your masterpieces are is only really important to your husband while you're breastfeeding

Your doing NBE automatically, to me, looks like a very important sign, as to what it means to you. I had doubts before the start of my three month ramp, early July. I used a technique, from a book called "The Smart Unconscious" by this guy:
http://dijksterhuis.socialpsychology.org/#overview
It's simple:
1) Read, listen, learn, absorb all the relevant information.
2) Do something else, something that doesn't occupy your mind too much.
3) The answer will occur to you when you are relaxed, not really thinking about anything. Places that start with a "b" have good track records: bed, bath, bus, grocery shopping ("boodschappen" in Dutch)

Good luck if you try it, but you probably know the answer. You achieved something unique. Congratulations, and thank you for sharing it