07-12-2010, 04:15 AM
Okay, you´ll have to be a little creative and find some excuse to mail him. You could look at his favourites - say if he likes some band, join that group too and then you can write him something along the likes of "oooh weren´t you so and so? I never knew you liked this band too!" Or perhaps you have some friend in common you can ask him about?
Also, take a look at how many friends he has on his list. If he has a lot (more than 300 orso), chances are he´ll accept a friend request from you, even if he doesn´t know you that well.
I once mailed a guy on fb, I had a crush on him when I was 14 and we actually never even spoke. I just asked him "weren´t you on such and such school once?" I got a very nice reply, he was like "ooh right, I remember your face" though I think he had no idea, haha. Anyway, it did get kinda flirty (the issue of meeting in real life didn´t show up because we´re living in different continents) but the idea is to try not to appear like you´re stalking him, only like you´re being friendly.
Also, take a look at how many friends he has on his list. If he has a lot (more than 300 orso), chances are he´ll accept a friend request from you, even if he doesn´t know you that well.
I once mailed a guy on fb, I had a crush on him when I was 14 and we actually never even spoke. I just asked him "weren´t you on such and such school once?" I got a very nice reply, he was like "ooh right, I remember your face" though I think he had no idea, haha. Anyway, it did get kinda flirty (the issue of meeting in real life didn´t show up because we´re living in different continents) but the idea is to try not to appear like you´re stalking him, only like you´re being friendly.