[twister_mama]

Add me to the "always cold" crowd! My hands and feet will turn bluish/purplish sometimes, too. Especially my nails. I think it was worse before I had my kids, though. I still get EXTREMELY cold when I'm over tired. I also get hot flashes now, too, at like random times. I'm like all over the place, temperature-wise!

I never measured myself before I got pregnant the first time; but IF I was any bigger than I was before starting my program in June, it was only an inch. I've had an "ironing board" chest my whole life, darn it.

And yes, it is true you cannot change anyone else, no matter how badly they NEED to change. They totally have to WANT to change, and do it on their own; otherwise, they'll just be acting like they've changed to make you happy, even though they haven't changed one bit. Nope, life is too short to "settle" for anyone less than worthy of you. (Unfortunately, I found this out the hard way in the past).