[IrisHeart]

Whoa that went from 0 to 100 real fast.

People I can see both sides of your arguments and how you might've come to them. I suppose I should've dialed it down about this particular topic in my first post, I got myself thinking a bit too much about my past and it gets me emotional easily.

Regarding male attraction and such my perception of it took a drastic turn in the very beginning of this year and I owe it entirely to my kind, loving, amazing and incredible boyfriend. He has never ever once said anything negative about my chest and he alwayssss shows me so much love and appreciation. I was so firmly set in my beliefs that it took me more than a few months simply to accept the fact that he loves me just the way I am and that he adores me from head to toe. I don't really pay attention to his financial situation so I can't speak about all that research on male attraction's correlation with appearance but I couldn't care less about it now. I love him just the way he is and he loves me just the way I am and that's all I could ever ask for in life.

Perhaps my case is one of many exceptions to all that research but honestly I couldn't be happier about it.

Im so happy for you, you sound like such a sweet girl, thats just how a relationship should be mutual respect and love. My apologies I just dont like when people bring their negative delusions based from deep seeded insecurities onto a forum that is supposed to be supportive and full of positivity. Sending love and light x

It's okay, I understand how the situation went down like that. I'll just support y'all for the better and hope to leave a positive impact on you guys here hehe - sending love too <3

At the risk of further beating an already dead horse and hopefully not hijacking a thread, @Bustyprincess I agree with you wholeheartedly. We are all beautiful women, big breasted or small breasted. Saying things like "low class men generally chase after big breasted women, and higher class men tend to like smaller/medium breasted women" is inciting division between women. This is assumption on my part but it seems to stem from resentment of big breasted women. The fact that we're all here shows that we're trying to get bigger breasts relative to our current size, let that be the goal and not demonize naturally big breasted women. Lots of low class men chase after small breasted women, and a lot of high class men choose big breasted women for partners.

Iris heart I look forward to your journey, I've pretty much given up on mine but still lurk here every now and then. Wish you all the luck!

Natural busties gotta flaunt their beauty! I have quite a few friends gifted in that department and while I definitely can't say I've never been a tiny bit jealous, I make sure to encourage them to love and flaunt themselves. They're beautiful people on the inside and the outside goes well with that. Got a few small chested friends as well, some love what they've got, others not so much but I show them love and appreciation none the less. At the end of the day I hug everyone the same (sending you guys hugs too! C:

Thank you for the wishes jaykay! And perhaps it may not be my place to give out wisdom but never fear to give it another try. Our bodies are complex creations and they always hold potential. Sending love! <3