[PoisonIvy]

Hi. You should definitely give noogling/cupping a try. You've tried other things and they didn't work so if this is your last hope, then by all means - go for it before throwing the towel in.

I do have the same problem, only that my breasts are tubular in shape. One is small and the other one bigger and the bigger one is so happy to grow when I gain weight and the small one just stays the same. I will always feel the need to lose weight because something inside of me wants that bigger breast to just disappear so at least I wouldn't look like Quasimodo anymore. Noogling is my only hope, as well.

I'm the same exact way! I prefer weighing less so that the difference isn't like a whole cup size or so different. If I'm forced to deal with smaller breasts that's one thing, but breasts that are completely different shapes and sizes? Nope. That's why I won't try any kind of hormonal NBE until I find a way to wake the little one up somehow otherwise it just worsens the problem because the larger one is the only one that responds to anything. Massage didn't help, but that's why when I got some swelling with a breast pump I got so excited because it was the first time it responded to anything.
The Kangzhu broke after like a week, and kept causing it to develop those dots and turn purple because I had to overpump because they only have larges which I'm not so it didn't want to stay on unless I overpumped, and then it just broke. I just ordered a noogleberry (where I was able to actually get the correct size this time lol) though because I finally decided to take the plunge (since I did at least get swelling which is more than I ever got with anything else for that one) and get it feeling like I might as well go all out since this is my only hope of waking up the smaller one. So now I'm just waiting for it to arrive in the mail so I can start. 
Fingers crossed all of us have success!!