26-02-2020, 07:58 AM
(17-02-2020, 07:27 PM)Happyme Wrote:(17-02-2020, 04:34 PM)Elize6 Wrote:Hi Elize,(13-02-2020, 07:03 AM)MariaAM Wrote: hey! i've told my partner about it, i dont even remember how it came up. But thankfully he was very supportive of it. And later into it, he asked some questions about it. Like, do you think it works/is working? how does it feel? I explained it to him, and the supposed science behind it (from my understanding). I guess we treat it like me wanting to improve my body, similar to going to the gym to lose/gain weight, or to get fit. He would prefer i do this over a boob job, and I also agree. I also wanted to make it clear, that I want to do this for myself.
I'm happy with my body, and still want to improve - i wanted him to see that. It was a touchy subject at first, but I couldnt hide it from him either. Now i give him updates every now and then. When i dont talk about it much, hes still noticed that my breasts have gotten bigger, and he enjoys that. He loves playing with them, especially because I show them love too.
Maybe opening with something like, im planning on working on my body, and introduce the program - and see where that goes.
-MariaAM
Hi Maria, thanks for your reply!
So I got my self all ready to talk to him the other day. I started by mentioning that I’ve been doing some research into nbe. Then I asked him if he would like to help me, he said how? So I told him “massage”. He replied with a “oh really”, but it wasn’t a excited or interested “oh really”. It had a doubtful and sceptical tone to it..
so that was enough for me to shut down the conversation pretty pronto! Perhaps I shouldn’t have, I should’ve carried on and explained to him how it’s meant to work. But I didn’t and now I’m back to square one with having to approach the subject with him yet again!
I do believe your right and that you should have kept going, even if you didnt sense it was going right.
Unless you have been married for 30+ years I cant imagine any man not wanting to help massage his wifes breasts.. but that's just me.
He might be seeing it as something that may take him away form the football game, so give him an idea of whats involved and what the perks are.. no pun intended.
Bobbi
Hey Elize! I'm glad you tried! I also agree with Bobbi that men may not be interested without more info on what the 'perks' are. I think its ok if he wasnt interested right away, but now that hes aware you can definitely keep going at your program. I tried not to make it too big of a deal to my partner, and just said that im doing it on the side, he only really started to care later on when he noticed the changes too.
-MariaAm