[dreamergirl]

I don't go out., wear makeup, dress up, meet people,  date and don't hang out with friends as often as I use to.

I kind of just want to get big boobs first. My hair and skin are also so awful and I have put on some weight too. It's like I don't want to do normal everyday things until I am "my normal self" or "pretty".

What's your take on this?

I can understand this feeling, it sounds like self confidence issues which I struggle with too. I prefer to stay inside when I can, I am not a social type, and part of that does come from not wanting to be seen.

However I do believe that it is important to try and see yourself positively sometimes and getting dressed up nicely is essential for that. If you look at yourself looking low effort all of the time you won't realise your true potential and will feel even worse about yourself. I do try to dress up occasionally and wear makeup for my own self esteem boost.

And remember, if your boobs are holding you back that much, you can always wear a pushup bra or some padding under clothes. If you wear it properly nobody will guess and you can feel confident.