[EllaC]

if you do find him on FB you can always send a msg and give him your digits! I don't even have fb so I know how it is. Hopefully you'll run into him again soon/someone who knows him, esp with the church event.

I don't think this is very much your style but its an option--you can always ask his cousin to pass your number along to him, but I would say it would be nicer to have a more personal moment and ask him yourself. I would only use that tactic if you wont see him again for a long time and you don't want to miss your chance.

My advice for men is cliche but good nonetheless, just be yourself. When I was in high school and I liked someone I would be sooo upset if we didn't get along or weren't into the same things. I had a rough up bringing so I would hide a lot of things about myself too. If you don't find yourselves clicking, don't force it. Everyone has their own way of flirting, find yours and hone it You said the chemistry is there so I am sure it will work itself in there on it's own. When there is something there between two people there is no way one can be friend-zoned.

Well said and another great idea. If you want to get it out of the way then yeh ask the cousin pass on your number. But yeh thats also very true, the chemistry is there so if its meant to be its meant to be and it will work out.

I always as a kid dreamed of marrying a tall man with black hair and green eyes and very handsome - just a kids dreaming imagination.. In later life i forgot all about that, but then guess what - I met and married that very same man!