16-08-2014, 08:30 AM
Yes, as I said, I didn't have any bad intentions in making the comments and I don't think Rachel Aldana is a K cup either- more like an M. She has a medical condition which means that her breasts do not stop growing. I maintain that to aim to look like that may mean that you have an unhealthy perception of your body which is not necessarily going to be solved by getting even bigger breasts.
You do say that you are young and fit now. What about in 20 years time? Rachel Aldana is already in severe pain because of her chest at age 24. Because of her condition, I wonder if reduction surgery is even a viable option. Sure, she makes money out of it now but what happens when she is 40?
I do apologise for causing you any upset and that was not my intention. But you have to be able to take some level of criticism when you post on public boards.
If I joined a fitness forum and people were posting pictures of their fitness inspirations and I posted a picture of a clearly anorexic girl which was way out of the range of a healthy weight, I would expect some backlash. This is one thread out of hundreds on this forum and it is not attacking in tone. If you want to leave the forum, that is your choice but I have no personal desire to see you go and I really cannot understand why my post caused you to leave (and you had created a thread saying you were leaving before I posted anyway).
As I said, I do apologise for causing you any upset but I do stand by my opinion, as you stand by yours. Having distorted body image is a recognised condition and if you want any proof on here that it exists, look for "Doll's" posts. Doll seemed to have the perfect figure, continued to be unhappy despite growing bigger and bigger and later admitted that it was because she in fact suffered from gender dysphoria and was using NBE to block out her real feelings.
Anyway, take what you will from this but my guess is that throughout life, you will encounter people who do not have the same viewpoint as you and arguing back (as you have) is the way to do it rather than completely withdrawing from the situation.
You do say that you are young and fit now. What about in 20 years time? Rachel Aldana is already in severe pain because of her chest at age 24. Because of her condition, I wonder if reduction surgery is even a viable option. Sure, she makes money out of it now but what happens when she is 40?
I do apologise for causing you any upset and that was not my intention. But you have to be able to take some level of criticism when you post on public boards.
If I joined a fitness forum and people were posting pictures of their fitness inspirations and I posted a picture of a clearly anorexic girl which was way out of the range of a healthy weight, I would expect some backlash. This is one thread out of hundreds on this forum and it is not attacking in tone. If you want to leave the forum, that is your choice but I have no personal desire to see you go and I really cannot understand why my post caused you to leave (and you had created a thread saying you were leaving before I posted anyway).
As I said, I do apologise for causing you any upset but I do stand by my opinion, as you stand by yours. Having distorted body image is a recognised condition and if you want any proof on here that it exists, look for "Doll's" posts. Doll seemed to have the perfect figure, continued to be unhappy despite growing bigger and bigger and later admitted that it was because she in fact suffered from gender dysphoria and was using NBE to block out her real feelings.
Anyway, take what you will from this but my guess is that throughout life, you will encounter people who do not have the same viewpoint as you and arguing back (as you have) is the way to do it rather than completely withdrawing from the situation.