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I have been distancing myself from the group for this exact reason, I come back after being gone a while and read this post :-/ let me explain a few things. I have massaged with raw aloe consistently since puberty to avoid stretch marks unknowingly I think this has caused me to be larger chested than the average. Growing up I was always called names and treated different having big boobs I am very self conscious but recently after getting married I was helped by my hubby to embrace them and feel good about my curves. I also need everyone to know that my boobs were much larger! I am used to being even bigger yes bigger than I am know. They do get in the way but I'm young and somewhat fit and when wearing the right bras have never had back pain or tourture. I decided I wanted to loose weight and went from a 12 down to size 8-10! I am very proud of that, however my girls suffered, they lost size which is ok with me but mostly they lost shape fullness and perkiness. I came to te group not to just grow bigger boobs but to get back the boobs I had when I was heavier because I loved the shape and perkiness I once had. I have gained back 4 inches in size (still smaller than what I was at my heaviest weight) but most of all I have gained back fullness and perkiness, now I am confident to let my hubby see my without a bra and I love it. I don't care what size Rachel Aldana is but I do know I have big boobs like hers and hers are full and perky for the similar size boobs she has, she is a roll model because she is very busty like me and has a great body as well that I am trying to achieve by loosing weight. I have always had big boobs and always will I just miss how they looked when I was heavy, now that I'm thinner and like the rest of my body I'm trying to improve my boobs to what they used to be. I don't expect anyone to understand me, I was a C cup in gradeschool and at my largest I was still inches bigger than I am now. I don't feel like I fit in here and feel misunderstood, I have no bad feelings to anyone and have nothing but joy and happiness for everyone here! I will continue to cheer everyone on but as for me I feel like I don't fit in again... Thank you good bye for now I'm dealing with some depression with other issues in my life and don't think this is the place for me at the moment. Blessings to everyone.

Bustybride, I will be very sad to see you leave. I for one enjoyed your posts and how you posted things and started topics to try to get people talking. I don't have any problem understanding why you would want to be firmer, or larger. If your goal bra is two wheel barrows I may tell you that you are crazy, but if its what you want then more power to you! I know people larger than you that are perfectly happy.

I think you ARE very well liked here. So, people may post some things you feel are against you once in a while. I think Dddreams is just trying to understand your point of view, but I could be wrong. People can only hurt you if you give them the power to. Don't give it to them. I know its easier said than done. I used to be very sensitive like you and when I got older I grew out of it. It is liberating to be your own person and not behave, think, or feel based on what you think others think. You are an individual and not part of a collective.

Dddreams said something a little harsh, she disagrees with your ideal. Okay. So... you defended your position well. This sounds like good discussion, unless it was meant to be personal and then it was just mean, in which case see the above paragraph. Either way I don't see it as being a reason to leave. I think you add value here and hope you stay.