(05-02-2014, 05:11 AM)NikkiRain Wrote: (04-02-2014, 09:47 PM)Jenniferlove Wrote: Soooo......she's willing to compromise for YOU because YOU want her to have larger boobs? And her compromise is for you stop being pudgy and lazy, which you shouldn't be anyway. Honestly, you are much of what is wrong with society today. You seem lucky to have her. 38DD? She's already huge AND you say she's skinny. You will get no advice nor sympathy here because honestly, you sir, are a dirtbag.
After reading through every post on this thread, this post is my favorite. Kudos to you for saying what I think many of us were thinking. 
It is not difficult to unleash pent up emotions that you have towards experiences of your past on people over a forum that you cannot see face-to-face. In fact, this is what mostly all people do. What takes effort is refraining from emotion when telling factual things based on what was given.
There were a few good points made on this thread but the emotion-driven ones I was not proud of (but, I can understand why they became emotion-driven). I am ashamed because, then Edtar could actually make a valid point about this being a site filled with women with low self-esteem issues. Keep level-heads, girls. He is pretty unreasonable, I agree, for many reasons. I would say this post addressed it best:
(04-02-2014, 08:25 PM)tibetan113 Wrote: Wow its that important? If you are that tempted, it will prob happen and when you least expect it. I never said cheat or leave but if thats puttin a damper on your happiness, I'm actually suggesting to depart from your wife not cheat or grow your own to fulfill this desire. You have kids, I cant believe this is consuming your wants/needs list! They are large enough.
Here's a bright idea: tell her how you feel. If she's for it, great! If not, get over the dream. Simple enough yeah?
BTW, most women say that to make their man happy, thats often if he's average.
It looks like you need to be patient. Its give n take /compromise. Most women rush into pleasing their men when they are pleased themselves. Not saying she isn't. Just saying how most women prioritize.
@Edtar, there are women on this forum who do not have low self esteems, and those who do. There are those of us who are also not breast-obsessed. Regardless, this forum is meant to embrace all, and we all work towards loving ourselves more, big boobs or small boobs. You came onto this forum with a question that is beyond reasonableness for various reasons, and I myself, as understanding as I am of most, actually thought it was a joke until I continued reading the thread and saw you defend yourself countless times.
I think, as it was mentioned to you, you should either
aim to please your wife or leave her. Simple as that. This is the crux of the issue. Have you ever heard the phrase
"a happy wife is a happy life"? A lot of truth rings in that. And being a woman, I know this is true. We women are more inclined to care to please if we are pleased, as Tibetan told you earlier and indirectly posed by other more emotional members of this forum-family. I suggest you think about this and, if you cannot bring yourself to please your wife, you are not worthy of having her. All women deserve to be pleased by their husbands. And in all reality, we WANT to please our men! But nothing turns us off more than a man who does not care to please us. And so, we are appalled at your want to take without giving, or to give only under certain circumstances. Does this make sense? If you do not
want to please your wife, why are you with her in the first place?
Slightly going off-topic and not staying on the crux issue, I want to re-affirm this:
(04-02-2014, 11:10 PM)tibetan113 Wrote: Its so true, Ive been saying this since day one, many want large breasts for power, I myself can admit that. I do it more for power than for any man Id want to attract. Bitches with large cans are everywhere! So when it comes to men, I could care less if mine please them or attract them. I just love the idea of holding my own power. I imagine its the same with any dude and his larger than average manhood. No one can take that away from them and make them feel less of.
I do not try to grow my breasts for men, as the one I love does not even like large breasts. I do it just to embellish, for fun! While tattoo lovers see their bodies as canvasses, I see my body as a sculpture (and I do love sculpting!). NBE for me is primarily an art, and secondarily a science, as I very much enjoy the experimenting. So, I do not need bigger breasts to feel beautiful about myself, as I already feel I am beautiful and very attractive. Men may enjoy bigger breasts, but I certainly have not needed them to be noticed, as many women on this site have experienced. Most of us (cannot speak for all, though) participate in the practice of NBE for a less shallow reason/purpose than you think. Please be sensitive and realize how selfish your message is on a forum where women unite for a deeper purpose. Therefore, you should not be alarmed at these responses, as many women are not capable of controlling their emotions when it comes to such topics. You hit a nerve, so-to-speak.
This I wrote while ignoring most of the crazy tangents that occurred on this thread, which make my head throb.... Also, I want to say that char's post was a good one, so please do consider hers as you read Edtar. And Edtar, I have a pretty good idea of in what corner of the world you live given that your power was out yesterday....
That doesn't sound slim at all..
