[EllaC]

Aqua sounds like your ex is insecure hence him hanging on to you.
he knows your still in love and i feel he is wasting your time and toying with you. He may not be doing it on purpose but doing it because hes afraid/insecure and youl find someone else and he wont be able to have you there waiting in the wings
ive done it myself so i know.

i say keep seeing the new guy and give him your 100%
You may not be in love or see a future with him right now but be open to it because love can develop over time. Dont close yourself off to the new guy because you have just said now you know you cant have a future with your ex! He needs to man up and take you and love you now or let you move on!

Sorry if that sounds harsh as i dont mean it to be. Just dont want to see you living in hope for some1 who wont commit. Ive been there too.