[Jenniferlove]

Wow, I can't keep secrets like that for long from my very close ones. I just don't see a point in keeping secrets from people who are very close to me, because that is their job to be understanding at least, supportive at best. And I wouldn't want them to keep stuff like that from me. After all, we are all different and no one sees eye-to-eye on everything, so the actual qualifying factor of being a best friend, loved one, or significant other, is to be understanding! Do you think he would never understand and come to appreciate? Oh well, do whatever you feel like you must do! I feel for you girl.

If he found out what I was doing I think he would probably just be highly concerned and wonder why I suffer from such low self-esteem to go to such measures. He would not understand that I just want to grow my boobs. It would just be an annoying mess that I would rather not deal with. Him and I are extremely open and close with one-another, but this is something that I feel is none of his business. I have told no one, and I plan to keep it that way.

People exercise / eat right foods / do tai chi / yoga / tatoos / hairstyling / wearing nice clothes / shoes .... Are these not one form or other image enhancement ?

He's not talking about those types of things. More like surgeries to keep up with one's beauty. It all started with him saying that he's getting a receding hairline and I suggested a hair transplant down the line if he ever went bald. That got him going off on that topic. He hates breast implants, all those types of extremes for vanity. He thinks there's just too far of an emphasis on beauty that it has gone to unnatural extremes. And he's completely correct. What we are doing is "natural" but still not actually. We are forcing our boobs to grow. I get where he's coming from and respect it. Technically I am going against our belief which is why it's best to keep this secret.