08-10-2013, 08:29 PM
What a topic, ay! To simplify, like I wrote on my own page, where I live plays a large part of this whole internal issue. I live in a beautiful city filled with big boobs and gorgeous people. It weighs on you if you feel you don't measure up to your peers. And it swallows my self-esteem with my bf. Let's just say he is popular thanks to his field, with many females at his feet (UGH). I mean, I would do this with or without him, but I think he is the reason I FINALLY started it. The fact that he virtually paid zero attention to my boobs didn't help either. Now he's all over them & talks about them often. That proved my secret point perfectly.
I always had a ton of guy friends so I know for a fact that guys love big boobs. It's a big deal to them! I was "one of the guys" and let me say, they are cruel! So many flat-chested bashing going on behind closed doors. I always dressed pretty conservatively and would wear padded and push-up bras so nobody ever commented on me being small (because they didn't know). Never wore a bikini around the friend-boys either.
When I was younger, my biggest fear came true: my ex cheated on me with a HUGE-breasted girl. Then later when I had taken him back and we were fighting about it, me asking what the hell he SAW in her, under his breath he said "yeah well, she had huge tits". What a dirt bag! Needless to say I do not keep in touch with him.
I also became sick of looking completely flat without a bra on. I like lingerie and beautiful bras but I couldn't pull off the beautiful lingerie look because I had no boobs! I am in my early 30's now so I have had plenty of years to decide that this is something that I truly, REALLY want. And now that I am actually getting larger it feels wonderful and my self-esteem is really growing!
Us girls who will reach our goal will always know what it was like to be the small-boobed girl. Just like the "fat girl" who got skinny. We will hopefully always be sensitive to other people. I think it's better than always having being blessed in that dept.
I always had a ton of guy friends so I know for a fact that guys love big boobs. It's a big deal to them! I was "one of the guys" and let me say, they are cruel! So many flat-chested bashing going on behind closed doors. I always dressed pretty conservatively and would wear padded and push-up bras so nobody ever commented on me being small (because they didn't know). Never wore a bikini around the friend-boys either.
When I was younger, my biggest fear came true: my ex cheated on me with a HUGE-breasted girl. Then later when I had taken him back and we were fighting about it, me asking what the hell he SAW in her, under his breath he said "yeah well, she had huge tits". What a dirt bag! Needless to say I do not keep in touch with him.
I also became sick of looking completely flat without a bra on. I like lingerie and beautiful bras but I couldn't pull off the beautiful lingerie look because I had no boobs! I am in my early 30's now so I have had plenty of years to decide that this is something that I truly, REALLY want. And now that I am actually getting larger it feels wonderful and my self-esteem is really growing!
Us girls who will reach our goal will always know what it was like to be the small-boobed girl. Just like the "fat girl" who got skinny. We will hopefully always be sensitive to other people. I think it's better than always having being blessed in that dept.