(07-02-2014, 15:09)Edtar Wrote: Well, I finally had time to read all the replies. I don't have time to respond to them all. So I'll try to address some main themes here.
I did have a change of heart about discussing this with my wife again, this time at a deeper level. To tell the truth, I never felt comfortable with giving her NBE's surreptitiously but I didn't want to admit it. I figured if I stated an ambivalence, everyone would spend all their time trying to talk me out of it. But most did that anyway, though there was some other useful advice.
Good for you, then! At least you don't have to sneak around about it now!
(07-02-2014, 15:09)Edtar Wrote: When I came to this site I didn't think it would be all women. I thought some dudes would be here who thought like me and would help out, since this website is the top link of at least one porn/breast expansion site (that's how I found it).
Quite a few of us ARE men! But that STILL doesn't make us malicious enough to okay you, or ANYONE, putting something in someone's food for YOUR benefit when they've stated they don't share an interest in the benefit you hope to get through changing THEM!
(07-02-2014, 15:09)Edtar Wrote: She said her limit would be GG. I'd be fine with that.
Interesting!! First she didn't want to go beyond DD, now she'll happily go all the way to GG!
(07-02-2014, 15:09)Edtar Wrote: While I understand the enmity some show here, I still think much of it is unfair or hypocritical. There is nothing wrong with wanting big breasts to please men. Why not be honest about it?
Why can't we just want big tits for the sake of having bit tits? It's not really any different from wanting very long hair as opposed to having very short hair, having blonde hair instead of the brown hair one is born with, having tattoos and piercings instead of none at all, etc..
(07-02-2014, 15:09)Edtar Wrote: Given your admonitions to me, many of you are taking health risks while expending much time and effort that could be better and more healthfully spent on other forms of self-improvement.
True, we ARE taking health risks, but it is WE that are doing, not somebody else that's MAKING us do it!! And, like I said, we just want big(ger) tits!!
(07-02-2014, 15:09)Edtar Wrote: I got a kick out of a few responses in particular, like the woman who does it to be a body "sculptor" or the woman who does it for power. While I believe body sculpting is a valid reason, I doubt its all or even most of the reason she does it to the degree she does. Why breasts and why change to go so large? I used to do body building before my accident. You can get much better, faster, and more healthy body sculpting that way even if you're a woman.
Still the means, method and whim are COMPLETELY up to (in this case) the sculptress!!
(07-02-2014, 15:09)Edtar Wrote: The response that bugged me most and seemed most hypocritical was by the woman who said she wanted to enlarge her breasts for "power", like, she alleged men do with their penises. Frankly, big dick waving is more an expression than an actual fact. As I felt forced to admit, I have a large penis but I've never considered it a source of power. While it is an advantage with some women (before my wife) it is of no use to me with my wife since she cannot reach orgasm with penile stimulation alone and it only makes it harder for her to give me a blowjob. I'd be happy with a 6" penis as long as I'm married to her.
Have you tried giving her face? You've got a tongue, use it! When you go carpet munching on her, use your tongue to write a letter across her female box. Just write the alphabet in huge slowly written letters!! If you can do it right, she'll be cumming before you get to F or G!!!! Also, do some research, there's a porn star named, Flower Tucci, that has videos teaching how to make her squirt!! Better still, make her cum at LEAST once BEFORE you bury the salami in her and she just MIGHT get off a LOT easier with it!! Also, instead of just shoving it STRAIGHT into her, try going in GENTLY and an upwards (if she's o her back and you're on top of her) angle. Her G-spot is very likely directly behind her clit at the roof of her vagina. Use your plonker to stimulate that and it'll swell up just like your knob does when stimulated and she'll probably enjoy it a LOT more!! Doggie style does it lot easier. On top of that, your baggage will be slapping away at her clit with each stroke at the same time making it more intense for her.
(07-02-2014, 15:09)Edtar Wrote: The thing is, I've read stuff about women wanting big breasts for power many times before this one and it always seems hypocritical or vindictive to me. It's often those same women who decry men for "waving their big penises around". Women (and men) rightfully, in my opinion, object to men using aspects of there masculinity to manipulate and control others, which is the essence of the "power" that the woman was referring to. So why is it right for a woman to do the same thing? They're both wrong.
I don't think women talking about big tits giving them power is the same kind of power you're on about.
(07-02-2014, 15:09)Edtar Wrote: What is power but the ability to manipulate and control? Are you ladies comfortable with women (or men) who seek to manipulate and control based on body parts? Wasn't it the woman's movement that wanted power and influence to be an earned aspect of mental ability and character rather than a province of sex?
All women wanted was equality. What else were we gonna do, give sheep the vote?? (Actually, now that I think of it, in different terms, that's EXACTLY what we have!!)
(07-02-2014, 15:09)Edtar Wrote: You can't have your cake and eat it too.
But you CAN have your Kate and eat her, too!!