[echapman]

If you're content but just loving half-heartedly then you have not found love!

Is some jealousy normal? Yes. Crazy jealousy isn't. I am crazy in love with my husband and he is honestly my best friend. I can't imagine my life without him. I have had a crush on him since I was 15, and at 21 I still get butterflies. Contentment is there, too... it is in any relationship. We have days where we sit in our pajamas all day and he definitely sees me at my worst and is okay with that. We fall into the routine of married life just like everyone else does. However, there are moments where I still have "holy shit" moments with him where I get all giddy and it still feels new. He is my other half. Neither of us really get jealous... he has porn on his phone. None of the girls look like me for the most part. That doesn't bother me. He has female friends that I know have crushes on him. He doesn't act on it and will never do anything like that.. as an elderly patient at the nursing home I used to work at once said, "honey, I don't care where he gets his appetite as long as he comes home for dinner!"