[timarie]

Personally, I think "crazy in love" lacks a level of maturity and/or complete honesty. To be obsessed is to be blind, and to be blind is not healthy. One can prioritize and adore someone without being "crazy in love." In fact, I think it is more genuine that way. There is usually some unhealthy reason behind every obsession...

But as far as being attracted to other women goes, I think not all men are attracted to other women. Having attraction towards someone is to feel the urge and the desire for someone. Many men who are happy with their significant others do not feel the urge and desire for others. But it is important to know that ALL do NOTICE other women and may find them to be good-looking. I have no problem when my man notices another, as I notice them too! He would have to be blind not to notice them and have an opinion, as so would I. But I don't think a man has to think "man, I WANT that!" whenever he notices someone. So, what I mean is, this does not mean they have to be drawn to wanting them but they most certainly all notice the beauty of other women (I am not sure which of these you fall under, Edtar). I am guilty of this (the latter) myself. It's human nature and, if we are to deny it, it would be to live our lives in a fantasy land with unreasonable expectations.