[TibetanPrincess]

"While I understand the enmity some show here, I still think much of it is unfair or hypocritical. There is nothing wrong with wanting big breasts to please men. Why not be honest about it? Everyone here says there are such women but nobody wants to admit to being one. It seems some have to give reasons to justify it for themselves that betray insecurity or a bending to societal norms. I can understand wanting to grow them if you're flat to fit better into a dresses but you don't need DD+'s for that - that so many of you list as the goal/dream. Given your admonitions to me, many of you are taking health risks while expending much time and effort that could be better and more healthfully spent on other forms of self-improvement."

Actually, I need to correct you here. I can say its "icing on the cake" to have larger breasts when it comes to men and possibly pleasing them but that's just it; possibly. You know why? Because the simple fact is, that many men don't care for large breasts and there is a percentage that does not like large breasts period. I have met many of them. I had someone I was really into and he did not large breasts, mine were a b cup then. I felt like "If he doesn't like them, he will soon not like me and that's just fine. Move on..."
And we both moved on.... He liked his gals plain and skinny. Thats fine but its truly not my body type. I realized I needed to fined a man who can appreciate a curvy latin woman. I have no control over my body type, its what I was born with. The reason why most women have high goals with the exception of some (those who do infact have a complex) is that, its barely creating balance. In order for my body to be the same top to bottom, my breasts need to catch up to a measurement of 36.25" which is an E cup on me. So thats where that comes from for many of us. You obviously do not know that a balanced hour glass is what many of us are striving for. And no one cares to shrink their asses. Thats too much work and more unnatural.



"I got a kick out of a few responses in particular, like the woman who does it to be a body "sculptor" or the woman who does it for power. While I believe body sculpting is a valid reason, I doubt its all or even most of the reason she does it to the degree she does. Why breasts and why change to go so large? I used to do body building before my accident. You can get much better, faster, and more healthy body sculpting that way even if you're a woman."

Again, you put your foot in your mouth, you talk like you know, but the fact is, you don't know what you are talking about. Timarie is a woman who loves sculpting her body and by that I mean, she works out more than the average gal. That's upper body, lower body and God only knows what else she does to maintain that great muscle tone and SCULPTED figure. Its hard work and most of us gals couldn't keep up with that kind of routine. But SHE does, and she's got a man who loves her body as it is, so I can see, shes doing it to fulfill her desires as being HER ideal woman, the best version of herself. Its about HER perspective not anyone else's. So yes, there is a sense power there, one she is in control of and not anyone else. She was building muscle before the boobs were even a project, so don't make an ass out of yourself by simply assuming.

"The response that bugged me most and seemed most hypocritical was by the woman who said she wanted to enlarge her breasts for "power", like, she alleged men do with their penises. Frankly, big dick waving is more an expression than an actual fact. As I felt forced to admit, I have a large penis but I've never considered it a source of power. While it is an advantage with some women (before my wife) it is of no use to me with my wife since she cannot reach orgasm with penile stimulation alone and it only makes it harder for her to give me a blowjob. I'd be happy with a 6" penis as long as I'm married to her.

Unlike women with nice breasts, most men don't show off their dicks in private. Most men don't know how big the dick is on their friends, neighbors, or coworkers. And since HS locker rooms have changed since I was in HS, its not even a common area of discovery or comparison anymore either. Men who deliberately show off their junk in tight pants are usually the butt of derisive jokes between us men. You ladies can speak for yourselves there but does it give them power over you in any way?

The thing is, I've read stuff about women wanting big breasts for power many times before this one and it always seems hypocritical or vindictive to me. It's often those same women who decry men for "waving their big penises around". Women (and men) rightfully, in my opinion, object to men using aspects of there masculinity to manipulate and control others, which is the essence of the "power" that the woman was referring to. So why is it right for a woman to do the same thing? They're both wrong.

What is power but the ability to manipulate and control? Are you ladies comfortable with women (or men) who seek to manipulate and control based on body parts? Wasn't it the woman's movement that wanted power and influence to be an earned aspect of mental ability and character rather than a province of sex?

You can't have your cake and eat it too.
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Okay, you've seem to steer over to some land of the lost, and are dead wrong here. You know damn well, that penis size is a very touchy subject with most men, or else, there wouldn't be so many NATURAL penis enhancement forums. I highly doubt most do it to fit their clothing like women do (which has always been part of my reason here). Many want to please their women (they have insecurity with that and that's understandable). The other reason is for power, not the kind to rule the world, lol! Which is what you seem to take it as.

As I have stated, there are many bitches with large cans here! I would be in that pool, just the same. As far as "Power" Its a kind of power that is held by the person as an individual. Since I can only really speak for myself to this depth here, I will say, this power for me, I feel it is a kind of thriving aspect about myself, being in existence, feeling like a very fertile woman and looking it, rather than withering away, hanging onto a string for dear life, which is the opposite of what I believe God intended. I was in the worst health as an adolescent and it showed as well as into adulthood now. I am still battling this hormone issue. I was going into menopause early at 30! So I value health. There is a kind of sanctity and security here and I have control over it, no one else does.
It may sound strange to you, but that's what it is for me and I can imagine for many of us.

As far as insecurity and men, that left me when I got to a full B cup. So no, its not for the menfolk (my reason for goaling an E cup) All those memories of being teased by girls and boys. It went as far as my height. I was always younger looking than all the others. So, it wasn't just "boobs insecurity" here, it was a human insecurity. It was about everything I was. And it was all related to health and perspective, my health and my perspective, no one else's.

So there you go, keep assuming, and you'll end up like you have been, making your self sound like an ass and a selfish individual.