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While I understand the enmity some show here, I still think much of it is unfair or hypocritical. There is nothing wrong with wanting big breasts to please men. Why not be honest about it? Everyone here says there are such women but nobody wants to admit to being one. It seems some have to give reasons to justify it for themselves that betray insecurity or a bending to societal norms. I can understand wanting to grow them if you're flat to fit better into a dresses but you don't need DD+'s for that - that so many of you list as the goal/dream. Given your admonitions to me, many of you are taking health risks while expending much time and effort that could be better and more healthfully spent on other forms of self-improvement.

I got a kick out of a few responses in particular, like the woman who does it to be a body "sculptor" or the woman who does it for power. While I believe body sculpting is a valid reason, I doubt its all or even most of the reason she does it to the degree she does. Why breasts and why change to go so large? I used to do body building before my accident. You can get much better, faster, and more healthy body sculpting that way even if you're a woman.

The response that bugged me most and seemed most hypocritical was by the woman who said she wanted to enlarge her breasts for "power", like, she alleged men do with their penises. Frankly, big dick waving is more an expression than an actual fact. As I felt forced to admit, I have a large penis but I've never considered it a source of power. While it is an advantage with some women (before my wife) it is of no use to me with my wife since she cannot reach orgasm with penile stimulation alone and it only makes it harder for her to give me a blowjob. I'd be happy with a 6" penis as long as I'm married to her.

I see my willingness to understand is wasted on the ignorant.

"I doubt its all or even most of the reason she does it to the degree she does. Why breasts and why change to go so large?"
How about you ask her then, what she does in her body sculpting? Instead of ASSUMING that she only tries to grow her breasts and grow them "so large"? My goal, dear sir, is a 32D, and I am currently a 32C. That 32D is a cup size equivalent to a cup A on your wife's 38 band. Too big now? Given what you wrote earlier, certainly not. I actually like to keep my unique figure (a fuller bottomed, smaller-topped body frame) and accentuate it, because as I said, I like to embellish or as we all should try to fulfill our greatest potentials. And don't bash other girl's dreams on this forum either of DD's because, on their smaller band widths, it is like a B or at most a C on your wife, so you can cut all of these girls a break. http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=14862

"I used to do body building before my accident. You can get much better, faster, and more healthy body sculpting that way even if you're a woman."
Haha! Of all people you wrote this to ME?!? My girls on this forum would laugh. I actually DO body building. I feel ridiculous for even defending myself and saying this to you, as it was never your place in the first place to assume that I didn't. I actually wouldn't be surprised if I lift more than you, sir, but that is beyond the point. Some of my girls on this site don't like my body building, but that is what makes me unique and is a part of my sculpting. I just don't like plastic surgery, and that is where I cross the line. But I do all else. http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=14868

I would be ashamed, if I were you, for making assumptions about people that you do not know. How presumptuous of you. And you cannot even say in response to this "well people made assumptions of me" yes, people did, but if you are going to do tit-for-tat, it would only be fair game if you did it with the people who actually DID jump the gun on you! I was very fair in my writing to you and made no crazy emotional accusations, nor displayed the enmity of which you speak. And then you turn around and make accusations of me, which is strange. You are bitter and taking it out now on anyone, but most especially those who you do not understand. I AM being honest when I say I am not doing it for men. I don't NEED men, or their attention. I have had quite enough of it already, am tired of it, and cannot maintain any healthy friendships with any men because of it. Boobs are for ME!!!!!!!!!!! You'd be surprised at how many women on this forum are gorgeous. And I believe Tibetan when she says she does it for power. In all of my many writings with her, I have never heard or seen mention of a man in her life, so it is safe to say she probably could care less about attracting men. Plus, she is extremely beautiful as well.

So, some things to learn from this post: 1) Ask before making accusations. This is a life lesson most learn early on in grade school but not everyone has the capacity to practice this simple rule 2) Be polite to those who are polite to you, and give respect to those who give you respect. This is kind of a common sense rule, that all unselfish people understand and practice on the regular. 3) Respect everyone, as you never know what a person's "entire story" is. I apologize that you were not entirely respected by others on this thread, but it was explained the reason for the obvious sensitivity.

EDIT: I mentioned the one that I love in my previous post, as he does not like large breasts. This is true. I want bigger (not large) breasts for ME. Now, if he enjoys the size increase (which I am sure an extra cup size will not be too large for him and he would enjoy that), it would be an extra perk. But even if he weren't in the picture and if I was dating a man who wanted me to SHRINK my breasts, I would still be doing this. Therefore, it is for me. It may be difficult for you to believe but it is true. I want to look in the mirror and see a certain shape in my dresses, and whatnot. And, furthermore about the one I love, he supports me in whatever I want but I cannot tell you how many times he moans "when are you going to be done with this NBE stuff? It's really not that important, is it?" so even the little perk of him enjoying the results isn't even really there because he's rather me enjoy life than spend time on this, haha. There are so many different kinds of people out there, you wouldn't believe it to be true. This is why I did not jump the gun to assume you were a pig, or that your wife would even be hurt by the idea. I have seen so many different kinds of couples that my horizons have been broadened to the point where I know to NEVER assume anything. Please do not make negative assumptions on the women you cannot understand. Big boobs are not just for attracting men! So yeah, lesson be learned to respect people for their choices, even if you don't understand them. This goes for everyone!