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Well done for talking with your wife and really we aren't all crazy but we are mostly women so obviously you hiding pills is going to upset some people even the dudes.
I think we all have different reasons i dont think breasts give me power i dont want power more like timarie and sculping but i dont want to body build thats not attractive on women i want soft feminine hourglass I want bigger breasts because to me its like a sexual thing I love big breasts and I always wanted some still i want them bigger its not for men well I suppose a little for one man but other men no OK when I'm not alone the looks and stares are funny when I am alone its makes me nervous I have had strange men follow me many times.
Why do you want her with bigger breasts?

Bonita,

Thanks for the congrats.

I'm pretty much going to excerpt here what I said in my PM to you where you asked me the same question. That way, others can chime in if they want.

Asking a man why he is obsessed with big boobs is like asking a foot fetishist why they like feet or, I would argue, why heterosexuals are attracted to the opposite sex and homosexuals the same sex.

I don't know what combination of nature and nurture led to my longings. Could it be that I was breast fed by a mother with large breasts? I don't know. All I know is I've had an intense attraction for big boobs since I was 12. My sexual excitement and the strength of my orgasms has always been much stronger with big-breasted woman than small. I can't explain why. If I could change it I would. I don't like being so fixated on one thing - though I love butts too that match the boob curve. But fortunately my wife loves the attention I pay to them. Not all women do.

For me, there's no "too big". I can't even admit to my wife that I'm attracted to women with grotesquely large breasts - people who are literally freaks of nature. Rationally, I know those women look downright ridiculous. But I'm attracted just the same.

I don't want my wife to look ridiculous but since she's so tall, her boobs don't look as big as they would on a smaller woman. Moreover, she used to have larger boobs before our kids were born, so they are a little shrunk. Maybe I should have mentioned that in the thread.

So for me, its a completely subconscious sexual thing. Do you have any idea why you want big breasts? It's hard to imagine its for the same reason as me, unless you can be highly sexually attracted to your own body parts.

I wonder if some women can get addicted to making their breasts larger, sort of like anorexia in reverse. Many of the threads here make breast enlargement sound almost ritualistic - as is the case with many addictions. Is there competition here among the women too?

[deleted] I spoke with a therapist about my breast fetishism years ago (I was undergoing treatment for PTSD after my tour in Iraq). He told me it was a natural occurrence and that there is no known treatment for it, just like you can't change a homosexual person to become attracted to the opposite sex.

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