[TibetanPrincess]

Wow its that important? If you are that tempted, it will prob happen and when you least expect it. I never said cheat or leave but if thats puttin a damper on your happiness, I'm actually suggesting to depart from your wife not cheat or grow your own to fulfill this desire. You have kids, I cant believe this is consuming your wants/needs list! They are large enough.

Here's a bright idea: tell her how you feel. If she's for it, great! If not, get over the dream. Simple enough yeah?
BTW, most women say that to make their man happy, thats often if he's average.

Also, girth is much more useful than length any day. If it hurts her, you may be leaning or shaped other than straight. Anyone could tech choke on penis over 4.5"-5", that doesn't make you large in the length dept. The way you use it is very important. A considered large penis that is used gently is never wished to be smaller esp. If its straight.

Surgery is not required here. There are plenty of forums where males ate growing their penises naturally.