[Missed Miss]

Me too!! I just wish I could have some!! After she started cheating on me 12 years ago, I broke it off and haven't been lucky enough to find someone new since then! :-(

That is horrible it isn't worth staying with someone who is cheating on you. It always seems hardest to find someone when you are looking doesn't it? Someone amazing tends to come along only once you are fed up with looking for them. But I guess there is always the option of online dating sites! Its a nice fallback option to meeting people

Well, we had a very trusting relationship. I see no reason in being jealous of my g/f just because she has male friends. I knew she was madly in love with me, at least until our 9th year together. I had no way to know she was cheating on me! She'd always call him her FRIEND, David. But, even though they were engaged, she'd STILL call him her FRIEND, David!!
During our last year "together" she'd been spending nearly every holiday with him. I didn't like it, but I wasn't jealous or thinking she's cheating on me. So, I called her up in Nov. to ask if she was coming for Thanksgiving and, again she said she was going to spend it with him. I jokingly asked her, "What are you gonna do, marry the guy?" She said, "Well..............yeah."
OVER THE PHONE, SHE TELLS ME THIS??????????
Then she says, "I thought you knew!". She said they're going to get married and move to Wyoming!! SHE'S FROM INDIA!!!! She can't even go out in 70 degree weather without a sweater!!
Y'know what he does for a living? He rummages through peoples' garbage, puts odd bits of it together in strange ways, takes pictures of it and sells the pictures to magazines as art!! One piece I saw was a toaster with the metal spindle from a record player attached to one of the slots and a record sitting on top waiting to be "played".
A year after I dumped her, she dumped HIM!! I blew 10 years of my life with her and she blew him off after only one year!! She wouldn't tell me why she dumped him, she got scared and said, "He's a killer!!!! Don't even ask!!!"
She still wants to be friends, but I'd rather have nothing more to do with her.

I've tried those dating sites, I had two dates and they were both a drag!

Yeah, I know!! I finally got someone, the Indian girl, and, within a few months I had two people asking me to go out with THEM!! Where were they half a year before?? Had I known she was going to cheat on me, I'd have gone out with them!