09-07-2013, 05:22
(09-07-2013, 05:12)Anastasia916 Wrote: Thanks ladies, I really appreciate it. It's confirming what I already feel. He makes me feel like I'm the wrong one and he's the saint. So sometimes I have my doubts if I should just continue to be with him. But I am miserable, I have been for a long time.
On a side note... my son is not his, he was 3 when we got married. He does have a job now, I got it for him last September. He works at the same place I do just different department.
I think what is making matters worse for me is I did meet someone that I'm friends with that I think I'm falling for. Problem is he's married also. I can tell he feels the same way I do. But I don't want to cause a divorce for him unless he wants that without me being the reason. He has been married for 12 years and said he has never loved her, basically we vent to each other about our marriages. He said he is only with her for his kids. They've split up 3 times within their marriage and she keeps his kids from him when he does that. So I haven't tried to push for more than just friendship because of that. Ugh, it sucks.
Girlfriend, don't do it. It would be an emotional rebound and never lasts. Trust me, I tried to be with someone who was in separation and divorce but then he was never ready as he thought he would.
Give yourself a break from love (especially if you are getting out of your current marriage), define your need first my dear, right now you are too emotional to make any right path for your future.
-V