[jsbelle]

I feel ya, about the massage. Its hard to fit it in. I really like Anastasia's advice about massaging and NBE in general - I can't remember which thread I read it in, but she said that you have to make NBE "part of your daily routing" because it takes to much patience otherwise its won't work as well. That's what I aiming for with the massage. Trying to do it when I brush my teeth or drink my tea/coffee, even for just a while, so that it becomes just like any other habit.

I used to have the problem of not being able to orgasm during sex, kegels really helped me get over that. You probably already do them cuz they are oooohh so amazing but if not you should give it a try!