05-03-2013, 22:47
(This post was last modified: 05-03-2013, 22:50 by Outofstyle.)
I have a solution for you: Hang up some posters of some half-naked guys in YOUR bedroom and invite your fella over!. On the roof, right where he can see him, on the walls, etc. One is all you need, really. Just place it perfectly so that he HAS to look at it.
And just see what he says. He may not mind, or he may mind tremendously but now at least he will be able to see things from your point of view. Bring him down from space to where you are coming from. You guys can talk it out, and maybe he will see why you have a problem with it or maybe your discussion will bring about that you are okay with it.
But if you are not feeling like he is hearing what you are saying after this, or like he is just disregarding your feelings then you can either then tell him that (tell him how he is making you feel) or dump him and not waste your breath.
Here is a poster example, I've got this stud hanging up on my wall
And just see what he says. He may not mind, or he may mind tremendously but now at least he will be able to see things from your point of view. Bring him down from space to where you are coming from. You guys can talk it out, and maybe he will see why you have a problem with it or maybe your discussion will bring about that you are okay with it.
But if you are not feeling like he is hearing what you are saying after this, or like he is just disregarding your feelings then you can either then tell him that (tell him how he is making you feel) or dump him and not waste your breath.
Here is a poster example, I've got this stud hanging up on my wall
