09-02-2013, 16:09
Ehh, I don't think the OP is a stupid question per se, but it may be directed towards a bias audience, lol. As natty92 mentioned, everyone on here is optimistic (at least initially) at the prospect of breast enhancement. I would guess that no one in these forums (including myself) would be happy "settling" with a flat chest.
At the same time, no one on here is too willing to give in to society's ideal expectations and get a "boob job" - whether it's due to moral reasons, financial reasons, etc. That's why the people on here come up with various types of programs that are pretty much anything -but- plastic surgery. And personally, I can respect that. If I can naturally enhance my boobs as opposed to going under the knife, that would be wonderful.
Personally, I don't see it as living miserably, so long as the person pursing NBE realizes and accepts the fact that boob size doesn't determine everything in life and that it does not reflect who you are as a person. Other than that, I don't really see NBE as a journey full of misery or feelings of never-ending disappointment.
Although I do wonder when "enough is enough." For instance, I just want a pair of boobs that is proportional to my butt size and the rest of my body. So as of now, my goal is a B or C cup size. But how long will that goal last? Once I achieve that goal, will I become obsessed with the idea of getting even bigger boobs? Maybe that's what the OP was alluding to...? If so, it's a rather insightful question.
At the same time, no one on here is too willing to give in to society's ideal expectations and get a "boob job" - whether it's due to moral reasons, financial reasons, etc. That's why the people on here come up with various types of programs that are pretty much anything -but- plastic surgery. And personally, I can respect that. If I can naturally enhance my boobs as opposed to going under the knife, that would be wonderful.
Personally, I don't see it as living miserably, so long as the person pursing NBE realizes and accepts the fact that boob size doesn't determine everything in life and that it does not reflect who you are as a person. Other than that, I don't really see NBE as a journey full of misery or feelings of never-ending disappointment.
Although I do wonder when "enough is enough." For instance, I just want a pair of boobs that is proportional to my butt size and the rest of my body. So as of now, my goal is a B or C cup size. But how long will that goal last? Once I achieve that goal, will I become obsessed with the idea of getting even bigger boobs? Maybe that's what the OP was alluding to...? If so, it's a rather insightful question.