Alternately, would you rather that everyone told you they thought you had wonderful breasts, but you still feel they're not good enough... or would you rather walk around feeling like you have perfect breasts, but everyone tells you that you have just the most beautiful flat chest.
Where in the first scenario, you're resisting the awareness that your sense of inadequacy does not stem from your cup size and that to continue focusing on it will waste energy and money and will never result in feeling better about yourself. In the second scenario, you're aware that your chest is not our culture's aesthetic ideal, but you've rejected that in favour of believing they're perfect because that's just a much more comfortable mindset to exist within (if you can find it.)
Changed the thread title. It was misrepresentative.
Where in the first scenario, you're resisting the awareness that your sense of inadequacy does not stem from your cup size and that to continue focusing on it will waste energy and money and will never result in feeling better about yourself. In the second scenario, you're aware that your chest is not our culture's aesthetic ideal, but you've rejected that in favour of believing they're perfect because that's just a much more comfortable mindset to exist within (if you can find it.)
Changed the thread title. It was misrepresentative.