14-11-2012, 23:23
Aaaaw Doll! Stop it, now I am going to shake you. You have a stunning body GRRR smacks stupid people making comments. I wish you would go and see someone about the BDD seriously I do.
BUT I do also understand how it is, I was brought up berated and not praised for anything and being flat, skinny and short didn't help! I know I am not hit with the ugly stick, even though I was at the back of the booby queue!
When you have grown up with negative commentary from loved ones it ingrains itself deep and I suspect this may have happened with you. You just need to learn how to not beat yourself up- I am learning this slowly. One thing I can say categorically is that what I lack in boobies I make up elsewhere. We all make it up somewhere else.
BUT I do also understand how it is, I was brought up berated and not praised for anything and being flat, skinny and short didn't help! I know I am not hit with the ugly stick, even though I was at the back of the booby queue!
When you have grown up with negative commentary from loved ones it ingrains itself deep and I suspect this may have happened with you. You just need to learn how to not beat yourself up- I am learning this slowly. One thing I can say categorically is that what I lack in boobies I make up elsewhere. We all make it up somewhere else.