[Doll]

While I understand your reasoning, I have to disagree. At first glance it might seem as if Doll's attempt to "smooth" things over with Emily is genuine. But I must question why if Doll is such a kind person, why did she write her extended "clarification" on Emily's page instead of sending the same message privately? If she really wanted to apologize, why make do it for everyone to see? Honestly that was messy. And it's just as likely that Doll did it to appear as if she were the bigger person. For all we know Emily apologized long ago privately. Once again I am not saying anything about Emily or Doll being wrong or right. I just hate the drama.

I have never received a personal message from her, nor have I ever sent one. She would be the first to mention it if she had, trust me. And I don't see what's so "messy" about my trying to clarify things after being demonized without my knowledge, and without a prior opportunity to do so. Just saying. After being attacked in such a way, I honestly don't think Emily deserves any civility at all, but that's just in my nature, so it shouldn't matter where or how I post such a message. If you still wish to retain the same opinion here, that's up to you. Everybody's welcome to an opinion.

I don't like all the drama here, either, and that has never been my purpose. Honesty is all I'm after here, and I really have gone about it in the nicest way possible. If I were after drama, I would have ENJOYED partaking in the name-calling the way she had, but I love this site, and I'm not trying to muddy it up with something so unnecessary. I don't want things to escalate to the point where people need to start being reported.