[Helena St]

Good luck with your new start! I have a lot of insecurities about my boobs too...deflated breastfeeding boobs.

I know not all guys are the same, but I think the general consensus is this, and this is what my husband says. I asked him when he thinks I look better, when I am heavier with nicer boobs, or when I am skinnier with smaller boobs. And he says this. "You know when you look the sexiest to me.? you want the honest truth?.... when your being nice and paying attention to ME!!!!"

On another forum I am on (which is not breast related) a bunch of women got on there and were talking about boobs and boob jobs and such. Several men (grown men, not teen guys) got on there and said yeah big boobs are nice, but women care WAY more about breast size than men do, and what is more important to a man, how a women carries herselfs, acts sexy, and pays attention to him. My husband seems to agree with this and would say most of his friends would too. Granted they are all grown married (possibly attentions starved) men now and not horny young teens haha.

I have to keep reminding myself of this otherwise I get so overly obsessed (sometimes I still so lol)

ETA - I think you have AWESOME boobs. I wish mine looked like that!