18-09-2012, 02:32
Hi Angel!
I'm SO happy you found it helpful. I don't think that the outer and the inner have to be in conflict with each other when thinking about breast growth. It doesn't have to be about a bad body image. It can actually move beyond that, but normally many people come here because they have low self-confidence which they think bigger boobs will solve (which it might, but it's sad and very self-limiting when self-confidence is based only on looks, because there is so much more to a person and life). I came here because of a bad body image.
LoL, I wouldn't for anything want to go back to being a teen either! Hah!
I'm also trying to expand my idea of beautiful, because I think I maybe obsess about one image of beauty when in fact there are so many other facets of beauty out there. I easily overlook these because I think others all agree on the same idea of beautiful I obsess about, when in fact different people appreciate different things and different body types etc, not just the one that magazines tell us are the "perfect" bodies, like you say. Some men find small breasts the most attractive. Small breasts are beautiful too. And there are many gorgeous people out there with small breasts, and thank god for that! So all hope is not lost if I don't grow!
Thanks Angel, I'm wishing you the best!!
I'm SO happy you found it helpful. I don't think that the outer and the inner have to be in conflict with each other when thinking about breast growth. It doesn't have to be about a bad body image. It can actually move beyond that, but normally many people come here because they have low self-confidence which they think bigger boobs will solve (which it might, but it's sad and very self-limiting when self-confidence is based only on looks, because there is so much more to a person and life). I came here because of a bad body image.
LoL, I wouldn't for anything want to go back to being a teen either! Hah!
I'm also trying to expand my idea of beautiful, because I think I maybe obsess about one image of beauty when in fact there are so many other facets of beauty out there. I easily overlook these because I think others all agree on the same idea of beautiful I obsess about, when in fact different people appreciate different things and different body types etc, not just the one that magazines tell us are the "perfect" bodies, like you say. Some men find small breasts the most attractive. Small breasts are beautiful too. And there are many gorgeous people out there with small breasts, and thank god for that! So all hope is not lost if I don't grow!
Thanks Angel, I'm wishing you the best!!