13-09-2012, 07:05
(13-09-2012, 06:13)Doll Wrote: This should be a personal goal, not just the necessity to fit in. I need to figure out what I really want, not what society wants. Because I know that no matter what, my mind will constantly be changing, and I'll keep finding something wrong with my body. I'll wake up some days and want a voluptuous, curvy body. Then some days, I'll wake up and wish I was petite like a cute, small Asian girl. And other days, I'll wake up wishing I was never female to begin with. But wanting these things in the short term doesn't mean they will ever be reality, and I need to just start learning to love what I've been given to live in.
And even if, as a personal goal, you never actually reach it... Don't be hard on yourself about it! You're an incredible person. Incredibly healthy. Incredibly beautiful. Just the way you are.
How many women these days are incredibly obese. Or anorexic? At least you're not in either of those categories...