[AbiDrew85]

have you heard of the saying "we are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience" ? I don't know if you believe in a soul or spirit, but I find it very helpful to think in this way, as in I am not my body, I am a spirit/soul/consciousness within a body. As in, I am sooooooo much more than my body. In fact infinitely more than my body, more than I can even realize. But I think people tend to identify themselves with their body, and believe that their personal value is based on how they look (that's what I've had a tendency to think at least) . And this is of course has a lot to do with our very shallow society. Like you say, you are not your bra size. You are an amazing woman, but even more than that, you are an infinitely amazing being!

Totally plus-plus this! (I'm a geek, okay!)

This is also where a lot of peoples hang ups are with transgender. They seem to think that because a given body looks a certain way, the soul that resides in that body must also be a certain way. This is anything but true!

I don't care what the body I was born with says. I am a woman. I'm going to do everything I can to help the world see the outside as matching the inside, but I am a woman. I don't NEED my outside to match the inside to be more a woman than I already am. More like other women. I'd certainly like it to though!

So yeah. NotSoBusty. You are a wonderful wonderful person. And a gorgeous woman. Live it!

You know... I just had a crazy thought. Maybe because of my... past... I have a greater affinity for recognizing the soul of a person and not pay as much attention to how they look. I can quite honestly tell you that I truly don't need to meet a person to know what kind of person they are. And quite often the way they look when I finally do meet them is like whoa. I totally had a different image in my mind! And quite often my mental image was far far more flattering...