15-06-2011, 21:09
Loredana, I have to agree with Rachyl, don´t ever let yourself be talked into surgery by any significant other!
Besides all the health risks, it´s just bad for your self esteem to accept that kind of criticism from someone you care about, even if you´re not aware of it at the moment.
My ex husband was an expert in making me feel insecure about myself, I´m very thin and he talked me into feeling like a cadaver or whatever, it was really cruel though he disguised it as concern for my wellbeing. Now my new significant other tells me I look like a model! He makes me feel wonderful all the time, and I have practically the same body as before. It´s such a contrast from my previous relationship, I´m amazed at how damaging my ex´s comments were.
Now when I noogle, I´m like Ah, my new love will go gaga if I get bigger boobs, but if not, I still want to have them bigger for me!
Besides all the health risks, it´s just bad for your self esteem to accept that kind of criticism from someone you care about, even if you´re not aware of it at the moment.
My ex husband was an expert in making me feel insecure about myself, I´m very thin and he talked me into feeling like a cadaver or whatever, it was really cruel though he disguised it as concern for my wellbeing. Now my new significant other tells me I look like a model! He makes me feel wonderful all the time, and I have practically the same body as before. It´s such a contrast from my previous relationship, I´m amazed at how damaging my ex´s comments were.
Now when I noogle, I´m like Ah, my new love will go gaga if I get bigger boobs, but if not, I still want to have them bigger for me!