31-03-2011, 18:53
Yeah, I just put it on when I'm in for the evening, and then I wear it to sleep. You can definitely do everything around the house (you just have to wear a really big shirt!); you could even go out and do stuff but I would only go somewhere where I was unlikely to see anybody who knew me, like just running a quick errand or something, because this thing makes your chest look ENORMOUS. I guess if somebody saw me who didn't know me I could pass for just having huge boobs, but anyone who knows me would notice the obvious difference right away! I try to wear it for at least 12 hours a day.
I know exactly how you feel about feeling like you've lost your femininity and not wanting even your husband to see you; I've felt that way on and off for years. Occasionally I would get some swelling and then I wouldn't be so embarrassed to show them, but most of the time I just kept my top on during sex. He is so sweet though; somehow he knows to disagree with me when I say my breasts look horrible! He is impressed by my progress though - I'm spilling out of my A bras at the end of the day, and that's never happened before!
Good luck with your program too! I'm glad to hear you're making progress! It really makes such a huge difference in my overall happiness, as I'm sure it does for you too...it's funny, it's such a small thing really, you'd think it shouldn't be so important; maybe it really is less important to guys than it is to us, but still...I just want to look my best, and I'm so glad I've finally found a way to restore my body and feel beautiful again, with clothes or without.
-V.
I know exactly how you feel about feeling like you've lost your femininity and not wanting even your husband to see you; I've felt that way on and off for years. Occasionally I would get some swelling and then I wouldn't be so embarrassed to show them, but most of the time I just kept my top on during sex. He is so sweet though; somehow he knows to disagree with me when I say my breasts look horrible! He is impressed by my progress though - I'm spilling out of my A bras at the end of the day, and that's never happened before!
Good luck with your program too! I'm glad to hear you're making progress! It really makes such a huge difference in my overall happiness, as I'm sure it does for you too...it's funny, it's such a small thing really, you'd think it shouldn't be so important; maybe it really is less important to guys than it is to us, but still...I just want to look my best, and I'm so glad I've finally found a way to restore my body and feel beautiful again, with clothes or without.
-V.