[Anastasia916]

Hey hun, I dealt with guys like that all through my teens, they suck. I once had a richer BF and for my birthday, he blindfolded me, put me in his car and took the blindfold off at a cosmetic surgery clinic. He was going to pay for me to get implants! Without asking if I was even considering them! UGH! Luckily I had only been dating him a few weeks, I was about 19 at the time, when I got mad and told him I didn't want surgery. He straight said "well a man of my caliber needs a woman of the same, you are everything I need except that one flaw of yours, I thought I would be generous enough to help". Needless to say he got slapped, I walked off, got a cab home and never talked to him again. You can let morons like that get to you, I know it's easier said then done, but they really aren't worth it. My husband is the perfect example of how a man should be towards a woman. He met me when I was a 32AA, the first two dates I did what I always do and wore nonpadded bras, I do that to let them know what I really have first. Then I started wearing my padded ones. Well, our relationship went a lil faster than any other I've been in, but none the less, when we got serious, he told me how beautiful I was, body and all. I told him then how I wanted to grow them bigger and how I had taken something prior to try. He said he liked me the way I was and didn't think I needed it. But he knows I needed to do this for me. He still finds me just as attractive now as he did then. Weight gain, and all. A real man will love you for you, not the superficial nonsense.

I agree with Cselestyna, except I think she meant to say that beauty IS skin deep lol. But I agree any male should have to earn the right to be intimate with you, the ones that push it to be sooner and faster are scum. Before I met hubby I was set up on a date with a guy by friends (always a disaster I know lol). I was 20 at the time and a single mom, he was 18 and a single dad. His child only a few months old, mine going on 3. I didn't mind that he had a kid, thought it was awesome if it were to work out that my son would have a sibling. I'm high risk pregnancy, and am not "suppose" to be able to have kids, I consider my son a miracle. So I have no clue if I can have another, if I can't I plan to adopt. Anyway, so I talked to him for a few days before we met and he seemed like a mature, well grounded, level headed guy for his age, and I thought it was because of being a single parent like me. So we planned our date when my son would be visiting his real father and his child was with the mother. On the first date he kept trying to make moves on me to go further than I'm willing to go that fast. When I refused him, he got very angry, said "I'm not in highschool anymore, neither are you, so lets not do the whole cat and mouse chase". I told him I had values and if he couldn't respect that to take me home. He did. A week later a friend of mine, single mom also, asked if I'd be okay if she dated him because she found him hot. I of course didn't mind but warned her of how he acted. Well she gave into him, and was intimate in the first date, she then called me crying saying that he used her. That after they had sex he told her he's in a long distance relationship with someone online, has been for a year, but they agreed they could both see other people until they could move in together. So I definitely made the right call. Oh and he said he loved me in the first date also! So he was a definite player. And there are tons of guys like him.

There are also tons of good ones, like my granny use to say "you have to kiss a lot of toads before you find a prince". And she's right. Going through a bunch of horrible guys will show you what to look for, the tell tale signs, so you know if the guy is good or not. This is what helped me decide that my hubby was good, and I was right.

Okay sorry to get off topic haha guys like that rub me the wrong way! About you missing your period, you change with age, also stress can effect it, eating habits, etc. etc. so it may have not been the BO but simply one of the other reasons. As far as the growing signs, sometimes they are like that. When I'm on BO I get growing signs once a month usually, for about one week, they come and go and some months they are really intense and for a long period of time each time, other times they are very weak sensations and for only a few mins at a time. But yea, you should get back on track with the protein! Not sure if collagen is a factor or not, when I took collagen with BO, it wasn't for NBE, the collagen was for skin mainly. I take it even when not on a NBE program. And haha I feel the same way about VS bras, when they're on I stand taller and feel sexier. I'm a 32E or F/34DD with one on, then I take it off haha and back down to a 32D/34C, they definitely give you booby greed! That's why when I outgrow these, I'm not buying more!!! HAHA I don't want to be bigger than a 34DD! I already told hubby if I try to grow bigger than that to take my pump away and not let me order more supplements lol. He still says he's happy with me the way I am and doesn't think I should grow more, but he knows how I am lol.