24-02-2011, 04:24
I think communication is the foundation of a good relationship. If you think she may be upset that she's smaller now (which it could be you have been massaging her the wrong way btw), then discuss it with her. See if SHE wants to grow bigger again, if she does send her here so she can do her own research. As far as massaging... oils would probably be worse. When I used oils I broke out worse and when I use cheap lotions. I like the vaseline brand cocoa butter lotion and st ive's lotions. I have acne prone skin btw. Also since lotion is being applied there often, she will need to be sure to cleanse that area more. And during a shower use like a loafa or pouf to exfoliate with. That's what helped mine. But yea for good massage techniques read through the forum, going the wrong direction can REDUCE their size!! Good luck!