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Wow, you and your family have been dealing with so much. I'm so sorry. I wasn't aware there was abuse involved; in light of that info, my earlier response now sounds totally off-base. Andy is right; fights within the family can be really, really bad, as the issues are a lot more personal. And Periwinkle is absolutely right too. That really is a tough situation. Have you and your mother and brothers ever discussed going somewhere else, where it's safe? And maybe getting your father some help? I feel really bad for you guys. I hope everything calms down for you! Hang in there. *hugs*

Yes, we are ok now. My father has been better for several years now. I didn't end up changing my password. I decided to support my mom and stand beside her. She really only had me and my brothers to support her and she's done so much already by herself. Thank you guys for the advice. You are all very kind!